dean: constantly guilt-trips cas for not being there at all times when he’s literally fighting a war
dean: tells a mentally impaired castiel nobody cares that he’s broken
dean: demoralizes castiel in front of his entire army, telling him he just ‘tries’ to be a good guy
dean: downplays and mocks every serious relationship castiel has ever had outside of him re: balthazar, claire, rachel, angels in general
dean: is angered whenever castiel does anything on his own without consulting him first
dean: beats castiel up to a pulp then threatens to kill him for good measure
dean: tells cas he’s going to kill his son and he can’t do shit about it
dean: asks castiel if he’s okay just so he can dismiss it because he just really wants to show him he doesn’t care
dean: forces castiel to go down to hell to aid a demon he knows they can’t trust then proceeds to try and close up hell knowing castiel is still inside
dean: tells castiel he’s at fault for basically everything that’s ever gone wrong because he knows that is the one thing that will hurt the most
bozos: dean’s not abusive and it’s a bad take to say that he is!!!! he’s just a layered, complicated character who’s entitled to feels!!!!!!!!
